1 00:01:02,783 --> 00:01:06,517 When I was born, the midwife said, "it's a girl." 2 00:01:06,617 --> 00:01:10,392 "Impossible," my mother grumbled, "I was on a boy diet." 3 00:01:10,492 --> 00:01:13,033 And everyone cried, except me. 4 00:01:14,492 --> 00:01:16,850 To comfort my sisters, my mother said: 5 00:01:16,950 --> 00:01:20,767 "Oh well, we'll just have to get used to her vertical smile." 6 00:01:20,867 --> 00:01:23,225 She wanted a little brother for my older brother. 7 00:01:23,325 --> 00:01:25,725 It's more practical for playing. 8 00:01:25,825 --> 00:01:30,325 She loved him unconditionally because he was fragile. 9 00:01:31,242 --> 00:01:33,183 He had nearly died at age 2, 10 00:01:33,283 --> 00:01:35,600 and she had waited until I started school 11 00:01:35,700 --> 00:01:39,117 before deciding to enroll him there too. 12 00:01:40,287 --> 00:01:42,958 At the end of elementary school, I was a year ahead, 13 00:01:43,058 --> 00:01:44,850 and he was a year behind. 14 00:01:44,950 --> 00:01:47,142 So we ended up homeschooling. 15 00:01:47,242 --> 00:01:50,242 - You idiot. - You're the idiot. 16 00:01:50,700 --> 00:01:51,975 And that year, 17 00:01:52,075 --> 00:01:55,825 my dad decided to pass on his passion to us. 18 00:01:59,325 --> 00:02:00,558 You're dripping! 19 00:02:00,658 --> 00:02:01,683 After a year, 20 00:02:01,783 --> 00:02:04,450 his grades were terrible. 21 00:02:04,617 --> 00:02:07,450 Are you scared? It's okay to fall. 22 00:02:07,617 --> 00:02:10,558 They sent him to the priests and then to the United States 23 00:02:10,658 --> 00:02:12,825 so he could learn English. 24 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:15,950 Beautiful, Cassandra. 25 00:02:16,328 --> 00:02:17,328 Wonderful. 26 00:02:17,408 --> 00:02:20,725 And me, they sent me to a military boarding school so I could get 27 00:02:20,825 --> 00:02:23,158 the best education possible. 28 00:03:18,992 --> 00:03:24,433 - Thank you, ma'am, have a safe trip. - Bye 1002, have a great vacation. 29 00:03:24,533 --> 00:03:27,225 I should've known that with my vertical smile, 30 00:03:27,325 --> 00:03:30,658 I wasn't going to be laughing for long. 31 00:03:32,283 --> 00:03:33,658 I'm here! 32 00:03:33,825 --> 00:03:35,408 I'm hungry! 33 00:03:35,575 --> 00:03:37,367 Set the table! 34 00:03:41,992 --> 00:03:44,908 My name is cassandre Mariam David. 35 00:03:45,430 --> 00:03:46,683 Cassandre is 36 00:03:46,783 --> 00:03:50,578 the name of the first girl my father ever loved but never got. 37 00:03:50,658 --> 00:03:55,158 Mariam, the woman he married in Africa to avoid stds. 38 00:03:55,825 --> 00:03:57,933 And David is the name of my late uncle 39 00:03:58,033 --> 00:04:01,433 that I would have had if I'd been a boy. 40 00:04:01,533 --> 00:04:03,616 We need to set the table. 41 00:04:11,325 --> 00:04:14,225 It's the return of philiphil from Philadelphia. 42 00:04:14,325 --> 00:04:16,325 You almost got expelled? 43 00:04:16,617 --> 00:04:18,492 Philiphil is back. 44 00:04:19,450 --> 00:04:21,475 I don't want a skinny girl. 45 00:04:21,575 --> 00:04:24,475 I warned you, this is just the beginning, i' take it all while they're sleeping. 46 00:04:24,575 --> 00:04:27,267 I don't care, sis, I'll go graffiti all their dogmas. 47 00:04:27,367 --> 00:04:29,558 I take signed photos of Bill Clinton. 48 00:04:29,658 --> 00:04:31,350 Mom bought you all this? 49 00:04:31,450 --> 00:04:34,450 He's still at it. Sweetheart, go on! 50 00:04:34,867 --> 00:04:37,017 Philiphil, we need to rekindle the flame. 51 00:04:37,117 --> 00:04:39,700 You've grown so much in a year. 52 00:04:41,908 --> 00:04:43,648 I'm writing this text. 53 00:04:43,728 --> 00:04:44,720 I'm writing... 54 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,350 In first grade, he wrote a love letter to a girl. 55 00:04:47,450 --> 00:04:50,600 She showed it to the whole class. It traumatized him. 56 00:04:50,700 --> 00:04:53,642 After that, he became allergic to dust mites 57 00:04:53,742 --> 00:04:57,659 and wanted to play house with me all the time. 58 00:04:58,575 --> 00:05:00,658 We have to set the table. 59 00:05:07,992 --> 00:05:10,642 Oh, look! She looks just like aunt albertine. 60 00:05:10,742 --> 00:05:12,533 "Hello, Cassandra." 61 00:05:14,867 --> 00:05:17,325 Aunt albertine is prettier. 62 00:05:17,492 --> 00:05:19,725 My mom hates cooking and eating. 63 00:05:19,825 --> 00:05:22,017 - I hate fat people. - What a mess! 64 00:05:22,117 --> 00:05:24,450 It's an ecological disaster! 65 00:05:24,700 --> 00:05:29,700 She was an activist in may '68 and posed nude in hara-kiri. 66 00:05:31,117 --> 00:05:34,058 She was a feminist, an anarchist, and an anti-militarist 67 00:05:34,158 --> 00:05:37,392 and wanted to travel around the world in a Volkswagen bus. 68 00:05:37,492 --> 00:05:40,242 But at age 23, she met my father. 69 00:05:43,325 --> 00:05:45,517 And they got married five months later. 70 00:05:45,617 --> 00:05:50,617 I wasn't ashamed of her, and things were going very well in bed. 71 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,117 They slept in separate rooms for 15 years 72 00:05:59,217 --> 00:06:01,408 and says that love only exists in movies. 73 00:06:01,508 --> 00:06:03,183 It's a reproductive strategy 74 00:06:03,283 --> 00:06:05,267 for the survival of the species. 75 00:06:05,367 --> 00:06:09,017 As a child, he dreamed of becoming an artist or a horseman. 76 00:06:09,097 --> 00:06:09,912 Jerk. 77 00:06:09,992 --> 00:06:12,325 And then he joined the army. 78 00:06:12,742 --> 00:06:16,350 After a long-term sick leave and 8 years of psychoanalysis, 79 00:06:16,450 --> 00:06:18,392 he thinks he's a misunderstood genius. 80 00:06:18,492 --> 00:06:22,909 It's very painful to be 30 years ahead of your time. 81 00:06:38,075 --> 00:06:40,350 Good soup without pesticides 82 00:06:40,450 --> 00:06:43,367 made with tomatoes from the garden. 83 00:07:17,867 --> 00:07:19,642 Your father is angry with the instructor, 84 00:07:19,742 --> 00:07:21,433 you won't be going to the barracks. 85 00:07:21,513 --> 00:07:22,412 Huh? 86 00:07:22,492 --> 00:07:25,325 I signed you up for a club nearby. 87 00:07:27,575 --> 00:07:30,850 Your mother signed you up for driver's ed. 88 00:07:30,950 --> 00:07:33,850 You'll stop by the hair salon to find an apprenticeship 89 00:07:33,950 --> 00:07:36,700 and pay us back for your license. 90 00:07:41,033 --> 00:07:42,408 And that's how 91 00:07:42,575 --> 00:07:44,533 that summer of 1998. 92 00:07:45,325 --> 00:07:48,492 I was 14 and my brother was almost 18. 93 00:07:59,783 --> 00:08:03,117 One, two, three. 94 00:08:11,408 --> 00:08:15,491 It's getting closer, less than a kilometer away. 95 00:08:16,950 --> 00:08:20,533 In this life, you need to have cash. 96 00:08:27,908 --> 00:08:29,908 Let go of me, it's okay. 97 00:08:37,575 --> 00:08:41,033 You know, money doesn't bring happiness, 98 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,867 but women love rich men. 99 00:08:59,058 --> 00:09:00,323 Let go of me! 100 00:09:00,500 --> 00:09:02,733 Wanna bet you can swim three laps without breathing? 101 00:09:02,813 --> 00:09:03,787 You're on! 102 00:09:03,867 --> 00:09:07,200 I'm going to show you a survival trick. 103 00:09:08,575 --> 00:09:10,111 On your marks... 104 00:09:10,742 --> 00:09:11,783 Ready... 105 00:09:12,158 --> 00:09:13,158 Go! 106 00:09:41,617 --> 00:09:44,725 - It's not working at all. - You're the one who laughed. 107 00:09:44,825 --> 00:09:47,150 You have to make a suction cup and suck it out. 108 00:09:47,250 --> 00:09:48,786 But that's lame. 109 00:10:02,575 --> 00:10:04,207 What did you say? 110 00:10:04,950 --> 00:10:06,867 I'll kill you for that. 111 00:10:15,575 --> 00:10:18,242 I'm freezing, I'm going outside. 112 00:10:20,158 --> 00:10:22,658 Traitor. You're abandoning me! 113 00:11:06,575 --> 00:11:09,742 - Oh, but you have hair. - It's fine. 114 00:11:10,325 --> 00:11:11,558 It's not good 115 00:11:11,658 --> 00:11:13,767 to sleep in underwear. It needs to breathe. 116 00:11:13,867 --> 00:11:16,683 It'll become a breeding ground for yeast infections. 117 00:11:16,783 --> 00:11:20,993 I never wear panties, even when I go out on the town. 118 00:11:23,242 --> 00:11:27,243 It's going to be hot, we need to close everything up. 119 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,100 I've lost 300 grams. I'll be able to eat. 120 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,183 Dry yourself off when you get out of the pool, 121 00:11:36,283 --> 00:11:41,200 - you're splashing water everywhere. - You're annoying me. 122 00:12:13,033 --> 00:12:16,950 Remember the way, you'll ride your bike later. 123 00:12:17,492 --> 00:12:19,409 It'll tone your calves. 124 00:12:40,367 --> 00:12:42,392 - 8 kilometers. - How much is that now? 125 00:12:42,492 --> 00:12:45,492 46 cents, my dear. That's inflation. 126 00:12:51,075 --> 00:12:53,850 You have to show who they're dealing with. 127 00:12:53,950 --> 00:12:55,725 A good rider has to ride everything, 128 00:12:55,825 --> 00:12:58,017 especially the nags from a lousy riding club. 129 00:12:58,117 --> 00:12:59,797 Come on, get going. 130 00:13:19,783 --> 00:13:21,325 Close your eyes. 131 00:13:34,450 --> 00:13:35,450 Hello. 132 00:13:36,242 --> 00:13:38,909 - Hi. - Where's the instructor? 133 00:13:39,367 --> 00:13:44,367 - You mean the riding instructor? - He's at the riding arena. 134 00:13:44,825 --> 00:13:46,575 Are you the new girl? 135 00:13:49,950 --> 00:13:51,392 Where did you ride before? 136 00:13:51,492 --> 00:13:53,517 At the cavalry regiment center 137 00:13:53,617 --> 00:13:55,683 with the republican guard horses. 138 00:13:55,783 --> 00:13:56,783 Wow. 139 00:13:58,283 --> 00:14:00,908 Here are the boots for jumping. 140 00:14:01,867 --> 00:14:02,867 Damn. 141 00:14:04,367 --> 00:14:09,284 We don't wear them the rest of the time. They aren't shod. 142 00:14:11,617 --> 00:14:13,600 When school starts, I'll take my g7 143 00:14:13,700 --> 00:14:16,183 at the military high school. There's an equestrian program. 144 00:14:16,283 --> 00:14:19,616 You'll see, it's pretty laid-back here. 145 00:14:20,825 --> 00:14:23,325 Let me introduce you to Orion. 146 00:14:57,867 --> 00:14:59,547 Fred is super nice. 147 00:15:00,450 --> 00:15:02,433 - Doesn't he yell too much? - My dad? 148 00:15:02,513 --> 00:15:03,412 Never. 149 00:15:03,492 --> 00:15:05,659 I've never heard him yell. 150 00:15:06,533 --> 00:15:08,200 But it works. 151 00:15:08,614 --> 00:15:10,367 You push yourself harder that way. 152 00:15:10,467 --> 00:15:13,892 My instructor yelled at me, and I improved really fast. 153 00:15:13,992 --> 00:15:16,242 I got my g6 in three years. 154 00:15:17,783 --> 00:15:19,700 Ok, everyone at a walk. 155 00:15:19,867 --> 00:15:21,325 Long reins, 156 00:15:21,492 --> 00:15:22,950 no stirrups. 157 00:15:23,867 --> 00:15:27,017 Close your eyes. Is that you, Cassandra? 158 00:15:27,117 --> 00:15:29,200 Have you found your seat? 159 00:15:30,700 --> 00:15:33,767 So, legs, pelvis, and diaphragm relaxed, 160 00:15:33,867 --> 00:15:35,450 jaws relaxed. 161 00:15:36,283 --> 00:15:40,368 And you synchronize your breathing with your horse's. 162 00:15:43,450 --> 00:15:46,367 That's good, there you go, relaxed. 163 00:15:46,908 --> 00:15:49,933 Cassandre, keep your hands soft, don't lock him up. 164 00:15:50,033 --> 00:15:51,866 Try to relax, breathe. 165 00:15:53,408 --> 00:15:57,658 I get the feeling like you're holding your breath. 166 00:16:21,658 --> 00:16:24,741 Don't you want to play? We're losing. 167 00:16:55,158 --> 00:16:56,325 Well then? 168 00:16:56,492 --> 00:16:58,308 Did you meet any cute guys? 169 00:16:58,408 --> 00:16:59,408 No. 170 00:17:03,700 --> 00:17:06,450 You smell like manure. Delicious. 171 00:17:07,450 --> 00:17:10,533 Find a rich husband who'll pay for the horseback riding, given the price. 172 00:17:10,633 --> 00:17:12,583 I don't want to get married or have kids. 173 00:17:12,683 --> 00:17:15,142 We'll talk again once your hormones kick in. 174 00:17:15,242 --> 00:17:20,781 You'll do what everyone else does. You'll find yourself a fine stallion. 175 00:17:24,325 --> 00:17:25,414 Here, mom. 176 00:17:26,117 --> 00:17:27,206 Thank you. 177 00:17:45,158 --> 00:17:47,600 It was about time. They're at least 5 mm. 178 00:17:47,700 --> 00:17:50,767 Can you imagine, you fall off a horse, you go to the hospital, 179 00:17:50,867 --> 00:17:55,867 and all the paramedics seeing your pubic hair. How embarrassing. 180 00:17:59,908 --> 00:18:04,392 Let me remind you that go is a game of territorial conquest. 181 00:18:04,492 --> 00:18:07,192 Chess is a game of power conquest. 182 00:18:07,272 --> 00:18:08,245 I know. 183 00:18:08,325 --> 00:18:11,408 Why are you placing your stone there? 184 00:18:11,700 --> 00:18:13,517 You have to conceal your strategy, 185 00:18:13,617 --> 00:18:15,617 consolidate, anticipate. 186 00:18:16,658 --> 00:18:18,058 Ouch, that really hurts. 187 00:18:18,158 --> 00:18:20,033 Oh, come on. 188 00:18:20,617 --> 00:18:23,142 You don't want an epidural, either? 189 00:18:23,242 --> 00:18:26,825 She sounds just like my mom and her drama. 190 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,517 Her parents had just died in a bombing, 191 00:18:30,617 --> 00:18:32,057 and she, at 15, 192 00:18:32,158 --> 00:18:33,725 was hitting on her guardian, 193 00:18:33,825 --> 00:18:35,505 and bam, pregnant! 194 00:18:35,950 --> 00:18:37,017 Can you imagine, 195 00:18:37,117 --> 00:18:38,797 the guardian's wife, 196 00:18:38,908 --> 00:18:41,017 with that orphan on her hands, 197 00:18:41,117 --> 00:18:42,683 the eldest one pregnant 198 00:18:42,783 --> 00:18:45,683 and little dédé, who's 3 months old. 199 00:18:45,783 --> 00:18:47,725 That my father came along. 200 00:18:47,825 --> 00:18:50,058 He was very kind to marry my mother. 201 00:18:50,158 --> 00:18:52,850 My stone, placed just right, can do anything. 202 00:18:52,950 --> 00:18:55,808 It can live, kill, flee, lock up, build, 203 00:18:55,908 --> 00:18:58,308 strike, and sacrifice itself if the cause is just. 204 00:18:58,408 --> 00:19:01,283 It has character, it has skills. 205 00:19:01,450 --> 00:19:02,700 Help. 206 00:19:03,158 --> 00:19:04,433 My father was very kind 207 00:19:04,533 --> 00:19:07,808 when my mother's younger sisters showed up at the start of the war. 208 00:19:07,908 --> 00:19:10,350 He took care of my aunts, and my mother took care of us. 209 00:19:10,450 --> 00:19:12,617 He was nicer than she was. 210 00:19:12,867 --> 00:19:14,392 He would gently wake them up, 211 00:19:14,492 --> 00:19:16,642 walked them to school with a snack, 212 00:19:16,742 --> 00:19:18,475 picked them up from school, 213 00:19:18,575 --> 00:19:20,058 tucked them in at night, 214 00:19:20,158 --> 00:19:22,975 he even deflowered my aunt dédé for her education. 215 00:19:23,075 --> 00:19:24,707 That's very kind. 216 00:19:27,450 --> 00:19:29,130 Everyone loved him. 217 00:19:29,783 --> 00:19:31,725 Not like my mom, always in a bad mood 218 00:19:31,825 --> 00:19:34,850 and chasing us around to gouge our eyes out. 219 00:19:34,950 --> 00:19:36,630 If I have two eyes, 220 00:19:37,325 --> 00:19:39,005 you can't kill me. 221 00:19:39,950 --> 00:19:43,058 And I'm the one who's going to crush you. 222 00:19:43,158 --> 00:19:45,658 - Risk move 2. - Risk move 2. 223 00:19:46,117 --> 00:19:47,117 Reduce 224 00:19:47,700 --> 00:19:49,044 the opponent's 225 00:19:49,450 --> 00:19:50,986 of the opponent. 226 00:19:51,617 --> 00:19:53,450 And there you have it! 227 00:19:53,700 --> 00:19:55,950 Come feel how soft this is! 228 00:19:59,450 --> 00:20:01,367 Wait. But the Jersey! 229 00:20:02,117 --> 00:20:03,308 But I'm not done. 230 00:20:03,408 --> 00:20:06,491 - Hey. - I didn't make the swimsuit. 231 00:20:24,242 --> 00:20:25,242 Damn. 232 00:20:59,825 --> 00:21:01,933 - Colonel Martin. - I just got here. 233 00:21:02,033 --> 00:21:04,950 - Great, kisses. - Kisses, dad. 234 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:19,242 Come on. 235 00:21:25,325 --> 00:21:26,325 Easy. 236 00:21:26,867 --> 00:21:29,808 - I don't see the point. - He's not listening to me. 237 00:21:29,908 --> 00:21:32,408 Isn't it the other way around? 238 00:21:35,742 --> 00:21:37,600 We think we have to subdue them, 239 00:21:37,700 --> 00:21:41,200 but on foot, it changes your perspective. 240 00:21:42,908 --> 00:21:45,142 He was rescued from the bullfighting circuit. 241 00:21:45,242 --> 00:21:48,992 If you put pressure on him, he'll get angry. 242 00:21:50,033 --> 00:21:51,298 Be attentive, 243 00:21:51,992 --> 00:21:53,432 and respectful. 244 00:21:53,825 --> 00:21:57,658 Otherwise, he won't be able to work with you. 245 00:21:58,200 --> 00:21:59,283 Breathe. 246 00:22:03,283 --> 00:22:04,283 There. 247 00:22:33,075 --> 00:22:34,908 Hey, want to help me? 248 00:22:35,075 --> 00:22:38,242 I'm going to feed the ponies some hay. 249 00:22:45,158 --> 00:22:46,850 Welcome to my chariot. 250 00:22:46,950 --> 00:22:50,950 - Isn't there a stablehand? - He's on vacation. 251 00:23:06,475 --> 00:23:07,892 Did you ever drive? 252 00:23:07,992 --> 00:23:10,392 With my dad, but it was an automatic. 253 00:23:10,492 --> 00:23:14,183 Press the clutch all the way down with your left foot. 254 00:23:14,263 --> 00:23:15,162 Then, 255 00:23:15,242 --> 00:23:17,433 shift into gear and take your foot off 256 00:23:17,533 --> 00:23:19,533 and press the gas pedal. 257 00:23:23,992 --> 00:23:25,022 Go ahead. 258 00:23:27,242 --> 00:23:28,778 You shift gears. 259 00:23:31,033 --> 00:23:33,116 Perfect. Then you let go. 260 00:23:35,825 --> 00:23:36,825 Great. 261 00:23:37,617 --> 00:23:39,297 Engage the clutch. 262 00:23:39,533 --> 00:23:41,450 Come on! 263 00:23:41,950 --> 00:23:42,950 Oh... 264 00:23:45,617 --> 00:23:47,575 Go for it, sweetheart! 265 00:23:49,533 --> 00:23:50,700 Perfect. 266 00:23:52,908 --> 00:23:54,173 There you go. 267 00:23:59,908 --> 00:24:01,892 - Colonel Martin. - That's me. 268 00:24:01,992 --> 00:24:06,308 Actually, a horse broke loose just as I was leaving, 269 00:24:06,408 --> 00:24:08,392 - and I helped catch it. - Hm. 270 00:24:08,492 --> 00:24:10,642 I'm leaving the club right now. 271 00:24:10,742 --> 00:24:13,975 I'll be home around 11:58, I'm hurrying. 272 00:24:14,075 --> 00:24:15,075 Ok. 273 00:24:24,242 --> 00:24:26,392 Have we ever met your cousin Rosalie? 274 00:24:26,492 --> 00:24:27,492 No. 275 00:24:28,075 --> 00:24:31,618 I saw her when she came to live with my mom. 276 00:24:31,825 --> 00:24:34,642 - I was jealous of her. - I'm sorry. 277 00:24:34,742 --> 00:24:37,892 She had a son with her half-brother while cheating on her second husband. 278 00:24:37,992 --> 00:24:40,600 He had no luck with women, but she certainly did. 279 00:24:40,700 --> 00:24:44,725 He would have been better off going to get his fix somewhere else. Anyway. 280 00:24:44,825 --> 00:24:46,308 Rosalie is moving. 281 00:24:46,408 --> 00:24:49,225 We went around dropping off resumes at all the hotels. 282 00:24:49,325 --> 00:24:52,267 - Philippe drove really well. - You've never worked. 283 00:24:52,367 --> 00:24:55,784 Do you think he'll find a job like that? 284 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:02,850 He should figure it out on his own. In six months, he'll be an adult. 285 00:25:02,950 --> 00:25:05,783 When I met you, I had a job. 286 00:25:05,950 --> 00:25:07,892 Before you were transferred here, too. 287 00:25:07,992 --> 00:25:10,933 I quit, and you didn't want me to go back. 288 00:25:11,033 --> 00:25:14,558 A compromise made within a couple becomes, in 95% of cases, 289 00:25:14,658 --> 00:25:16,767 a constraint for both parties. 290 00:25:16,867 --> 00:25:18,547 In the remaining 5%, 291 00:25:18,867 --> 00:25:20,042 it may be 292 00:25:20,142 --> 00:25:23,912 a sign of love, or if you don't believe in that, a reward. 293 00:25:24,292 --> 00:25:26,683 I take care of the house. I bore you four children. 294 00:25:26,783 --> 00:25:32,017 Mathematically and mathematical science has nothing to do with accounting. 295 00:25:32,117 --> 00:25:36,450 The question of concessions is a strictly personal matter. 296 00:25:42,117 --> 00:25:43,117 Qed. 297 00:26:14,992 --> 00:26:18,242 - 1, 2, 3, arm-wrestling... - Chinese. 298 00:26:18,533 --> 00:26:20,242 Ah, lost. 299 00:26:33,325 --> 00:26:35,992 Did you know dad cheated on mom? 300 00:26:36,867 --> 00:26:38,547 I don't believe you. 301 00:26:39,367 --> 00:26:40,367 Yeah. 302 00:26:43,408 --> 00:26:46,241 When he was on a mission in Gabon. 303 00:26:46,700 --> 00:26:49,058 Mom told me that while she was crying. 304 00:26:49,158 --> 00:26:54,158 She's freaking out that he's going to Madagascar because of that. 305 00:27:09,242 --> 00:27:11,725 Have you ever slept with a guy? 306 00:27:11,825 --> 00:27:12,992 No. 307 00:27:18,158 --> 00:27:19,908 But I've kissed some. 308 00:27:22,533 --> 00:27:24,992 - Where? - At summer camp. 309 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,700 - With tongues? - Well, yeah. 310 00:27:35,367 --> 00:27:38,117 Have you ever wanted to have sex? 311 00:27:39,908 --> 00:27:40,950 No. 312 00:27:43,950 --> 00:27:45,700 I mean, I don't know. 313 00:27:52,492 --> 00:27:55,659 Sometimes I feel things in my stomach. 314 00:27:56,533 --> 00:27:58,616 I don't know, it's weird. 315 00:28:04,158 --> 00:28:06,241 Me, when I was in the us, 316 00:28:07,867 --> 00:28:10,700 I hooked up with a bunch of girls. 317 00:28:12,117 --> 00:28:14,142 They all wanted to sleep with me. 318 00:28:14,242 --> 00:28:16,308 - I don't believe you. - Yeah, I swear. 319 00:28:16,408 --> 00:28:18,158 Why are you laughing? 320 00:28:19,158 --> 00:28:20,908 You don't believe me? 321 00:28:23,908 --> 00:28:25,908 I know how to do it now. 322 00:28:28,325 --> 00:28:30,575 I can teach you some stuff. 323 00:28:41,325 --> 00:28:43,658 I melted around her fingers. 324 00:28:46,158 --> 00:28:47,838 They were so cold. 325 00:28:50,450 --> 00:28:52,950 They didn't look like fingers. 326 00:28:54,033 --> 00:28:57,642 Except they were, actually, because of the nails. 327 00:28:57,742 --> 00:28:59,659 They had to be fingers. 328 00:29:08,075 --> 00:29:09,419 What about me? 329 00:32:03,867 --> 00:32:05,867 Did you fall out of bed? 330 00:32:10,911 --> 00:32:12,270 You want some orange juice? 331 00:32:12,450 --> 00:32:14,200 No, thanks, I'm fine. 332 00:32:17,992 --> 00:32:19,257 Are you okay? 333 00:32:40,533 --> 00:32:42,267 You didn't wait long enough. 334 00:32:42,367 --> 00:32:45,200 But that's fine. Whose turn is it? 335 00:33:03,367 --> 00:33:05,047 Stand up straight. 336 00:33:06,033 --> 00:33:07,075 There. 337 00:33:12,450 --> 00:33:13,658 Look up. 338 00:33:13,825 --> 00:33:15,505 Keep your legs on. 339 00:33:15,992 --> 00:33:17,672 Clench your fingers. 340 00:33:22,950 --> 00:33:24,390 Nothing broken? 341 00:33:38,450 --> 00:33:39,450 Hey! 342 00:33:40,658 --> 00:33:42,991 Stop, we don't do that here. 343 00:33:45,117 --> 00:33:50,117 You have a right to be angry, but don't take it out on him. 344 00:33:58,658 --> 00:33:59,658 Ok. 345 00:34:02,492 --> 00:34:04,517 She was the last rider through. 346 00:34:04,617 --> 00:34:09,772 You trot them for 2-3 laps, long reins, and then out to the pasture. 347 00:34:33,408 --> 00:34:35,450 You can't force it. 348 00:34:38,575 --> 00:34:40,992 Not for you, and not for him. 349 00:34:42,283 --> 00:34:43,283 Ok? 350 00:34:48,158 --> 00:34:49,158 Here. 351 00:36:12,742 --> 00:36:15,825 - What's wrong with him? - He's old. 352 00:36:16,408 --> 00:36:17,944 Want to help me? 353 00:36:21,117 --> 00:36:23,200 Here, put on some gloves. 354 00:36:31,158 --> 00:36:33,142 You can disinfect there, 355 00:36:33,242 --> 00:36:35,242 around the jugular vein. 356 00:36:38,825 --> 00:36:41,575 Have you ever given an iv before? 357 00:36:41,742 --> 00:36:43,225 You look for the vein, 358 00:36:43,325 --> 00:36:45,950 you press here to make it swell 359 00:36:46,117 --> 00:36:49,308 and you insert the needle from bottom to top, ok? 360 00:36:49,408 --> 00:36:50,497 Your turn. 361 00:36:51,283 --> 00:36:52,548 Are you sure? 362 00:36:52,950 --> 00:36:55,475 He needs a shot, you can do it, 363 00:36:55,575 --> 00:36:57,850 and you don't have to be formal with me. 364 00:36:57,950 --> 00:37:00,700 Breathe. I'm staying here anyway. 365 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:05,267 So, go ahead, from the bottom up. With a sharp motion. 366 00:37:05,367 --> 00:37:09,700 The skin is thick, so you have to really go for it. 367 00:37:10,367 --> 00:37:11,658 There. 368 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,600 If blood is flowing, you're in the right spot. 369 00:37:15,700 --> 00:37:18,117 You can screw the syringe on. 370 00:37:20,658 --> 00:37:24,741 Draw up a little blood to mix with the solution. 371 00:37:27,953 --> 00:37:28,953 There you go. 372 00:37:29,033 --> 00:37:30,783 And inject it slowly. 373 00:37:31,408 --> 00:37:32,408 Gently. 374 00:37:36,578 --> 00:37:37,578 There you go. 375 00:37:37,658 --> 00:37:39,338 You can take it out. 376 00:37:40,117 --> 00:37:41,992 Well, good job. 377 00:37:55,158 --> 00:37:56,158 Dad? 378 00:37:57,408 --> 00:37:59,392 Are they waiting for you or not? 379 00:37:59,492 --> 00:38:01,124 Yeah, I'm coming. 380 00:38:19,617 --> 00:38:21,057 Dad, over here. 381 00:38:21,492 --> 00:38:22,581 Cassandra. 382 00:38:22,742 --> 00:38:24,422 Go on, get through. 383 00:38:30,283 --> 00:38:31,313 Good job. 384 00:38:31,825 --> 00:38:33,265 Good job, guys. 385 00:38:34,075 --> 00:38:35,105 Good job. 386 00:38:36,158 --> 00:38:40,491 - Want to celebrate your win? - I have to get home. 387 00:38:40,620 --> 00:38:41,620 Don't you? 388 00:38:41,700 --> 00:38:44,558 - I live here. - I'm an apprentice. 389 00:38:44,658 --> 00:38:47,325 - Don't you ever go home? - No. 390 00:38:47,450 --> 00:38:52,367 I don't get along with my stepdad, and I'm in heaven here. 391 00:38:56,642 --> 00:38:58,408 You can come to my place. 392 00:38:58,508 --> 00:39:01,412 I have a big pool. You can stay the night. 393 00:39:01,592 --> 00:39:03,028 You have a pool? 394 00:39:04,658 --> 00:39:05,658 Yes! 395 00:39:07,475 --> 00:39:10,642 - Colonel Martin, yes please? - Can I bring a friend? 396 00:39:10,742 --> 00:39:12,683 Your mom doesn't like surprises. 397 00:39:12,783 --> 00:39:15,517 It's not unannounced. I'll call you. 398 00:39:15,617 --> 00:39:19,475 She's inviting me to stay the night. You'll meet her first. 399 00:39:19,575 --> 00:39:21,992 And tonight, you're not here. 400 00:39:22,992 --> 00:39:24,528 Come on, please! 401 00:39:32,575 --> 00:39:35,325 - Am I too heavy? - Don't worry. 402 00:39:39,408 --> 00:39:41,033 Come on. 403 00:40:18,492 --> 00:40:19,492 Wow. 404 00:40:21,325 --> 00:40:22,533 It's huge. 405 00:40:25,533 --> 00:40:26,700 We're here! 406 00:40:32,325 --> 00:40:34,975 I told my dad I was spending the night at your place. 407 00:40:35,075 --> 00:40:37,475 So just pretend your parents are okay with it 408 00:40:37,575 --> 00:40:40,100 and don't say you live at the club. 409 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:41,242 Ok. 410 00:40:41,783 --> 00:40:43,117 But... 411 00:40:43,283 --> 00:40:45,450 I don't really like lying. 412 00:40:48,117 --> 00:40:50,284 Who's the biggest one for? 413 00:40:51,533 --> 00:40:53,100 No, thank you, ma'am. 414 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:54,892 Are you a vegetarian? 415 00:40:54,992 --> 00:40:57,142 You're going to lose your hair and your teeth. 416 00:40:57,242 --> 00:41:00,475 Iron deficiency. I'm just saying this for your own good. I would have been happy 417 00:41:00,575 --> 00:41:03,600 to have a sausage with my mashed potatoes. At my house, 418 00:41:03,700 --> 00:41:06,892 - it was potatoes and viandox. - Humans have been omnivores 419 00:41:06,992 --> 00:41:09,033 for millions of years. 420 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,725 It's not fanatics who are going to change that. 421 00:41:11,825 --> 00:41:13,767 And a 100% plant-based diet, 422 00:41:13,867 --> 00:41:16,392 - that's really bad. - If it kills people, 423 00:41:16,492 --> 00:41:18,575 there'll be fewer idiots. 424 00:41:29,950 --> 00:41:31,039 Otherwise, 425 00:41:31,450 --> 00:41:32,539 that club, 426 00:41:33,075 --> 00:41:34,183 this Fred... 427 00:41:34,283 --> 00:41:35,575 He's awesome. 428 00:41:35,742 --> 00:41:39,558 He trained with the horse whisperers in the us. I love how he teaches 429 00:41:39,658 --> 00:41:41,808 and how he handles the horses. 430 00:41:41,908 --> 00:41:43,617 I have my doubts. 431 00:41:44,075 --> 00:41:46,350 He got out of military service. 432 00:41:46,450 --> 00:41:48,130 What are you saying? 433 00:41:48,283 --> 00:41:53,200 Just because he acts like an idiot doesn't mean he is one. 434 00:41:54,992 --> 00:41:57,933 - How do you know that? - I asked around. 435 00:41:58,033 --> 00:41:59,517 I don't leave my daughter 436 00:41:59,617 --> 00:42:01,057 to just anyone. 437 00:42:02,783 --> 00:42:04,867 I respect those who refuse to go to war. 438 00:42:04,967 --> 00:42:07,834 You can respect even assholes, if you want. 439 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:10,950 I like him too, Fred. 440 00:42:13,367 --> 00:42:17,433 Well, he's not strict, and it's not as clean as the barracks. 441 00:42:17,533 --> 00:42:19,183 Your Fred, there... 442 00:42:19,283 --> 00:42:21,475 It's me you love through him. 443 00:42:21,575 --> 00:42:24,408 That's called the oedipus complex. 444 00:42:25,533 --> 00:42:28,616 A nation without an army is finished. 445 00:42:29,242 --> 00:42:31,617 You, too, will know war. 446 00:42:31,783 --> 00:42:34,808 You'll have to kill to save your own skin. 447 00:42:34,908 --> 00:42:39,975 The enemies, the banks, the mafias, the multinationals, the dictators, 448 00:42:40,075 --> 00:42:41,825 they have a strategy. 449 00:42:42,408 --> 00:42:45,225 And your Fred, what's his strategy? 450 00:42:45,325 --> 00:42:47,200 Whispering to horses. 451 00:42:53,700 --> 00:42:57,200 When will you tell us your strategy? 452 00:42:58,392 --> 00:43:00,450 - Do you have an apprenticeship? - Not yet. 453 00:43:00,550 --> 00:43:03,933 So by spending all your time in front of TV, it'll fall into your lap? 454 00:43:04,033 --> 00:43:07,058 He keeps up his accent by watching American movies. 455 00:43:07,158 --> 00:43:09,392 Speaking for him, Wii you make a man out of him? 456 00:43:09,492 --> 00:43:11,325 And he mows your lawn! 457 00:43:17,492 --> 00:43:19,225 There are four types of reactions 458 00:43:19,325 --> 00:43:23,642 to danger or aggression. You know the one with the horse, 459 00:43:23,742 --> 00:43:24,783 ladies. 460 00:43:25,783 --> 00:43:27,808 - Flight? - Hm. The horse knows 461 00:43:27,908 --> 00:43:29,492 that it is prey. 462 00:43:29,658 --> 00:43:31,183 Faced with a predator, 463 00:43:31,283 --> 00:43:34,600 it runs for its life across the open plain. 464 00:43:34,700 --> 00:43:36,933 Even when domesticated, its first instinct 465 00:43:37,033 --> 00:43:38,350 is still to flee. 466 00:43:38,450 --> 00:43:42,225 Only the stallion, the Alpha male, can attack a predator 467 00:43:42,325 --> 00:43:46,033 to save his group after sounding the alarm. 468 00:43:46,950 --> 00:43:50,283 The attack has always been my favorite. 469 00:43:50,408 --> 00:43:52,850 And then there's the freezing response, 470 00:43:52,950 --> 00:43:55,850 which we see in barnyard birds, for example. 471 00:43:55,950 --> 00:43:58,825 A hen will freeze as if dead. 472 00:44:04,033 --> 00:44:07,267 To make the fox or the rooster that wants to mate 473 00:44:07,367 --> 00:44:10,450 convincing the fox that she's just a piece of rotten meat. 474 00:44:10,550 --> 00:44:12,617 And finally, there is the fourth reaction, 475 00:44:12,717 --> 00:44:15,017 which I would say is more adaptive, 476 00:44:15,117 --> 00:44:18,450 which is submission to repeated aggression. 477 00:44:19,908 --> 00:44:22,100 That's the one that exasperates me the most. 478 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:25,100 Our reactions are instinctive responses to stimuli 479 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,850 to ensure the survival of the species. 480 00:44:27,950 --> 00:44:30,433 We are animals. Those who say otherwise 481 00:44:30,533 --> 00:44:32,850 are idiots who haven't understood a thing. 482 00:44:32,950 --> 00:44:36,783 By the way, did cassandre show you the exits? 483 00:44:37,575 --> 00:44:39,700 What? Once is enough! 484 00:44:39,867 --> 00:44:42,683 I don't want a lawsuit if she gets strangled and raped 485 00:44:42,783 --> 00:44:44,325 by some sicko. 486 00:44:46,617 --> 00:44:49,534 But eat up! It's going to get cold, 487 00:44:58,992 --> 00:45:01,075 Your family is crazy! 488 00:45:01,242 --> 00:45:02,390 Your dad... 489 00:45:02,867 --> 00:45:06,075 Yeah, he always has to act cool. 490 00:45:06,242 --> 00:45:08,392 Especially since he got stuck for two days 491 00:45:08,492 --> 00:45:11,825 with 30 dead bodies in 104-degree heat. 492 00:45:12,408 --> 00:45:14,325 Shall we go for a swim? 493 00:45:14,783 --> 00:45:16,725 I'll go back to the club later. 494 00:45:16,825 --> 00:45:20,308 - Why? - Stay the night. Come on, please. 495 00:45:20,408 --> 00:45:23,475 We're not having dinner with my parents tonight. 496 00:45:23,575 --> 00:45:25,600 Is that your whole family? 497 00:45:25,700 --> 00:45:26,700 Yeah. 498 00:45:27,908 --> 00:45:30,117 That's my dad. Me. 499 00:45:31,492 --> 00:45:33,409 My mom, my dad, my mom. 500 00:45:35,617 --> 00:45:38,225 My grandfather, who was gassed with mustard gas 501 00:45:38,325 --> 00:45:40,183 during WWI and made his fortune 502 00:45:40,283 --> 00:45:41,963 by defusing bombs. 503 00:45:43,783 --> 00:45:46,517 That's my father as an altar boy. 504 00:45:46,617 --> 00:45:48,057 Cute, isn't he? 505 00:45:50,617 --> 00:45:51,647 And here, 506 00:45:51,908 --> 00:45:55,517 my brother and me. People used to think we were twins. 507 00:45:55,617 --> 00:45:58,100 And here, my sisters, but my mom cut them out. 508 00:45:58,200 --> 00:45:59,880 The photo, I mean. 509 00:45:59,992 --> 00:46:02,183 - Why? - On their 18th birthday, 510 00:46:02,283 --> 00:46:04,308 they were 15 minutes late for dinner. 511 00:46:04,408 --> 00:46:08,493 My dad yelled at them, and the next day, they left. 512 00:46:08,617 --> 00:46:13,034 They say they're crazy. Want me to show you my room? 513 00:46:15,575 --> 00:46:17,450 This is my mom's room. 514 00:46:20,950 --> 00:46:23,200 Over there is my brother's. 515 00:46:23,908 --> 00:46:25,540 And this is mine. 516 00:46:25,950 --> 00:46:27,075 Ta-da! 517 00:46:27,950 --> 00:46:29,225 I have to pee. 518 00:46:29,325 --> 00:46:30,765 Ok, here it is. 519 00:46:33,158 --> 00:46:34,790 Is there no lock? 520 00:46:42,242 --> 00:46:43,507 What is that? 521 00:46:45,783 --> 00:46:46,872 A buffalo. 522 00:46:47,787 --> 00:46:48,787 Actually, 523 00:46:48,867 --> 00:46:51,017 for native Americans, when there's a storm, 524 00:46:51,117 --> 00:46:53,033 buffalo run through it 525 00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,642 and it's shorter than if they were running away from it. 526 00:46:56,742 --> 00:46:59,409 I liked the idea, so I made one. 527 00:46:59,533 --> 00:47:00,558 All by yourself? 528 00:47:00,658 --> 00:47:01,783 Yeah. 529 00:47:03,033 --> 00:47:05,450 And will you make one for me? 530 00:47:26,492 --> 00:47:28,308 Has he never seen a girl in a swimsuit? 531 00:47:28,408 --> 00:47:30,867 In my family, we swim naked. 532 00:47:31,325 --> 00:47:34,600 I put one on because you're here, but it feels weird. 533 00:47:34,700 --> 00:47:36,433 I think he feels the same way. 534 00:47:36,533 --> 00:47:38,600 - Wearing a swimsuit? - Well, yeah. 535 00:47:38,700 --> 00:47:41,308 They must think it's ridiculous that I'm hiding. 536 00:47:41,408 --> 00:47:43,625 I'd rather act like I have nothing to hide 537 00:47:43,725 --> 00:47:46,825 than make it obvious that I do. You know? 538 00:47:47,075 --> 00:47:48,617 No, not at all. 539 00:47:51,742 --> 00:47:52,742 Here. 540 00:48:18,533 --> 00:48:20,450 All right, did you pee? 541 00:48:39,117 --> 00:48:40,725 No, you're crazy! 542 00:48:40,825 --> 00:48:43,475 You shouldn't brush your teeth like that. 543 00:48:43,575 --> 00:48:46,100 You have to brush them from top to bottom, like this. 544 00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:49,242 - Mom! - Wait, but this is for her. 545 00:48:49,742 --> 00:48:52,600 If you want rotten teeth at 30, that's your problem. 546 00:48:52,700 --> 00:48:55,892 We'll deliver you to adulthood with all your teeth intact. 547 00:48:55,992 --> 00:48:58,808 And that's worth its weight in gold. 548 00:48:58,908 --> 00:49:01,825 You don't catch flies with vinegar. 549 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,058 I bought you another box. 550 00:49:05,158 --> 00:49:07,575 - Thanks, mom. - Good night. 551 00:49:21,325 --> 00:49:24,308 They didn't brush their teeth at my mom's house. They were too poor. 552 00:49:24,408 --> 00:49:27,392 It traumatized her, cavities, teeth falling out. 553 00:49:27,492 --> 00:49:30,642 At least we don't have cavities. Do you have any? 554 00:49:30,742 --> 00:49:31,950 Forget it. 555 00:49:33,825 --> 00:49:36,892 Is that you? Do they still have uniforms? 556 00:49:36,992 --> 00:49:38,975 Yeah, in military boarding schools. 557 00:49:39,075 --> 00:49:41,992 Her parents died in a bombing. 558 00:49:42,158 --> 00:49:44,683 Her mother was killed by her stepfather. 559 00:49:44,783 --> 00:49:47,683 And she's not actually her father's daughter. 560 00:49:47,783 --> 00:49:49,558 The others are normal girls, 561 00:49:49,658 --> 00:49:53,991 the daughters of diplomats, ministers, aristocrats. 562 00:49:54,867 --> 00:49:58,808 We're watching the world cup final at the club. 563 00:49:58,908 --> 00:50:00,056 What final? 564 00:50:00,575 --> 00:50:02,325 The world cup. 565 00:50:02,742 --> 00:50:05,683 - Oh, ok. - You don't watch soccer? 566 00:50:05,783 --> 00:50:09,017 My dad says it's a sport corrupted by money. 567 00:50:09,117 --> 00:50:11,642 But we're allowed to watch Roland Garros, 568 00:50:11,742 --> 00:50:14,242 the Tour de France, and rugby. 569 00:50:14,908 --> 00:50:16,558 You're not your father. 570 00:50:16,658 --> 00:50:20,741 You don't have to do everything he says, do you? 571 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:29,158 There's a light in my life shining over me. 572 00:50:30,512 --> 00:50:31,512 Do you know it? 573 00:50:31,592 --> 00:50:33,308 There's a light. 574 00:50:33,408 --> 00:50:34,517 In my life. 575 00:50:34,617 --> 00:50:37,783 Shining over me, yeah. 576 00:50:38,658 --> 00:50:41,533 Let your blessings from above. 577 00:50:41,700 --> 00:50:43,683 What are you listening to? 578 00:50:43,783 --> 00:50:45,223 Military songs? 579 00:50:47,950 --> 00:50:51,533 In my life shining over me. 580 00:50:53,033 --> 00:50:55,325 Lord, sometimes 581 00:50:55,492 --> 00:50:57,017 I sit and wonder. 582 00:50:57,117 --> 00:50:59,867 Why strange things happen to me. 583 00:51:00,908 --> 00:51:03,158 Then again I feel. 584 00:51:03,908 --> 00:51:07,158 My friends are all gone, yeah. 585 00:51:07,742 --> 00:51:10,825 But if I put my trust in Jesus. 586 00:51:10,992 --> 00:51:13,533 My balance will return. 587 00:51:13,700 --> 00:51:16,325 Don't you see there's a light. 588 00:51:16,825 --> 00:51:18,117 In my life. 589 00:51:18,283 --> 00:51:20,158 Shining over me. 590 00:51:22,075 --> 00:51:25,492 Lord, walk with me, talk with me. 591 00:51:25,658 --> 00:51:28,825 Please, stay close by my side. 592 00:51:29,367 --> 00:51:32,325 Be my shelter, be my comfort. 593 00:51:32,492 --> 00:51:35,658 Be my guide, yeah. 594 00:51:36,283 --> 00:51:38,700 I was blind, but now I see. 595 00:51:39,408 --> 00:51:43,492 Jesus came and he rescued me. 596 00:52:05,033 --> 00:52:06,033 So? 597 00:52:06,492 --> 00:52:08,350 What do you think of me? 598 00:52:08,450 --> 00:52:09,656 Very classy. 599 00:52:09,783 --> 00:52:11,808 My assignment in Madagascar is confirmed. 600 00:52:11,908 --> 00:52:14,558 - Oh, cool. - I need to get back in the saddle. 601 00:52:14,658 --> 00:52:16,083 There'll be some dressage. 602 00:52:16,183 --> 00:52:17,558 Have you made up with the instructor? 603 00:52:17,658 --> 00:52:19,700 No. Your club will do. 604 00:52:21,575 --> 00:52:23,017 And in the meantime, 605 00:52:23,117 --> 00:52:24,992 I'll give you a ride. 606 00:52:25,492 --> 00:52:26,492 Ladies. 607 00:52:30,283 --> 00:52:32,742 So, how was the sleepover? 608 00:52:34,117 --> 00:52:39,117 Come back whenever you want, even if you're not friends anymore. 609 00:52:40,075 --> 00:52:41,992 Here, for your parents. 610 00:53:37,950 --> 00:53:39,390 Thank you, sir. 611 00:53:43,408 --> 00:53:46,325 If she said yes, I wouldn't say no. 612 00:54:01,533 --> 00:54:02,533 Hello. 613 00:54:08,617 --> 00:54:09,617 Hello. 614 00:54:10,700 --> 00:54:12,242 - Hello. - Hi. 615 00:54:14,700 --> 00:54:15,850 It's a size 44, 616 00:54:15,950 --> 00:54:17,933 leather. I don't fit in it anymore. 617 00:54:18,033 --> 00:54:19,975 They'll be more useful to you than to me. 618 00:54:20,075 --> 00:54:23,308 They came from the Cadre Noir in Saumur. 619 00:54:23,408 --> 00:54:26,142 Thank you. I'm a size 42, and my boots fit me well, 620 00:54:26,242 --> 00:54:27,767 - but... - My father 621 00:54:27,867 --> 00:54:30,284 wants to get back on a horse. 622 00:54:31,658 --> 00:54:34,800 I don't have any horses available this week 623 00:54:34,900 --> 00:54:38,043 because of the training sessions, but... 624 00:54:38,575 --> 00:54:39,664 Next week? 625 00:54:40,742 --> 00:54:41,831 All right. 626 00:54:43,575 --> 00:54:45,575 See you next week, then. 627 00:55:00,742 --> 00:55:02,242 - Dad? - Hm? 628 00:55:03,117 --> 00:55:05,558 Sunday night, do we have anything planned? 629 00:55:05,658 --> 00:55:06,658 Why? 630 00:55:09,742 --> 00:55:13,992 The instructor's wife is looking for a babysitter. 631 00:55:14,908 --> 00:55:18,493 I could save up and buy myself some new boots. 632 00:55:24,742 --> 00:55:26,950 If it's paid, why not. 633 00:55:42,575 --> 00:55:45,242 - Go ahead, go ahead. - Cheers. 634 00:55:47,117 --> 00:55:50,950 He'll make an excellent apprentice sommelier. 635 00:55:51,783 --> 00:55:54,950 I bet 10 francs he won't get it right. 636 00:56:00,075 --> 00:56:02,867 A purple hue, rather dark. 637 00:56:07,533 --> 00:56:08,575 Aroma 638 00:56:09,367 --> 00:56:10,975 woody, or fruity, 639 00:56:11,075 --> 00:56:13,742 with a hint of tobacco or yeast. 640 00:56:22,617 --> 00:56:24,367 It has a nice finish. 641 00:56:25,408 --> 00:56:26,673 It must be... 642 00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:30,368 A good wine. 643 00:56:32,992 --> 00:56:34,909 I only have good wines. 644 00:56:36,283 --> 00:56:39,725 Grape variety, vineyard, vintage, estate? 645 00:56:39,825 --> 00:56:42,408 And the price, in your opinion? 646 00:56:49,325 --> 00:56:52,406 Rich in tannins, full-bodied, powerful, concentrated. 647 00:56:52,506 --> 00:56:54,142 Saint-Émilion, 1990 vintage. 648 00:56:54,242 --> 00:56:57,742 It deserved to age rather than be wasted. 649 00:57:02,950 --> 00:57:07,283 These wines belong as much to me as they do to him. 650 00:57:34,742 --> 00:57:37,492 Is it true that you're a lesbian? 651 00:57:38,867 --> 00:57:40,142 Well, no, why? 652 00:57:40,242 --> 00:57:43,892 My parents said that because you wrote poems to a girl. 653 00:57:43,992 --> 00:57:47,100 And then, since you invited your friend Laëtitia... 654 00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:48,392 That's nonsense! 655 00:57:48,492 --> 00:57:51,392 It was for a presentation on poetry. 656 00:57:51,492 --> 00:57:55,659 We had to do a portrait, so I chose my counselor. 657 00:57:56,033 --> 00:57:58,200 I wish she were my mother. 658 00:58:06,325 --> 00:58:11,403 You know, when I was in the us, I couldn't stop thinking about you. 659 00:58:11,533 --> 00:58:13,283 I missed you so much. 660 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,600 In my host family, I had a little sister, 661 00:58:16,700 --> 00:58:18,742 but she was such a pain. 662 00:58:19,117 --> 00:58:21,117 And a little silly, too. 663 00:58:21,450 --> 00:58:24,283 That's when I realized you were... 664 00:58:24,742 --> 00:58:26,825 An amazing little sister. 665 00:58:28,117 --> 00:58:30,850 Because you succeed at everything... 666 00:58:30,950 --> 00:58:32,486 You're pretty... 667 00:58:32,783 --> 00:58:34,183 You're beautiful... 668 00:58:34,283 --> 00:58:35,963 It's the same thing. 669 00:58:36,075 --> 00:58:38,325 You're smart, you're brave. 670 00:58:40,325 --> 00:58:41,957 I really mean it. 671 00:58:49,867 --> 00:58:52,392 In the us, I was "The Frenchie". 672 00:58:52,492 --> 00:58:55,117 So cute, so romantic. 673 00:58:55,283 --> 00:58:57,642 All the girls wanted to go out with me. 674 00:58:57,722 --> 00:58:58,620 At 15, 675 00:58:58,700 --> 00:59:00,058 if you haven't had sex, 676 00:59:00,158 --> 00:59:01,598 you're a loser. 677 00:59:02,033 --> 00:59:03,569 I'm not a loser. 678 00:59:04,367 --> 00:59:05,825 I'm a winner. 679 00:59:08,450 --> 00:59:11,517 You think I'm an idiot, but I know more than you do. 680 00:59:11,617 --> 00:59:13,767 I don't believe you, and I don't care. 681 00:59:13,867 --> 00:59:15,283 I swear. 682 00:59:16,242 --> 00:59:20,808 I've slept with tons of girls. They wanted me to go down on them. 683 00:59:20,908 --> 00:59:23,408 I don't care, I'm telling you. 684 00:59:24,242 --> 00:59:25,683 Do you know what that is? 685 00:59:25,783 --> 00:59:27,117 Cunnilingus. 686 00:59:29,242 --> 00:59:31,933 I'm an expert at cunnilingus now. 687 00:59:32,033 --> 00:59:33,239 Cunnilingus. 688 00:59:34,742 --> 00:59:37,825 Bet you 50 francs you couldn't do it. 689 00:59:41,575 --> 00:59:43,075 Risk 1. 690 00:59:43,242 --> 00:59:46,933 To defend is to protect one's territory from threats. 691 00:59:47,033 --> 00:59:48,100 Risk move 2. 692 00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:52,017 To reduce is to diminish the opponent's potential. 693 00:59:52,117 --> 00:59:53,575 I can't do it. 694 00:59:54,450 --> 00:59:56,367 You can smell the fish. 695 01:00:00,783 --> 01:00:01,908 Fuck you. 696 01:00:09,617 --> 01:00:11,933 Do you think I should talk to my therapist about this? 697 01:00:12,033 --> 01:00:13,783 You owe me 50 francs. 698 01:00:59,783 --> 01:01:02,142 Things were going really well in bed. 699 01:01:02,242 --> 01:01:04,350 I can teach you a thing or two. 700 01:01:04,450 --> 01:01:06,892 - But the swimsuit! - You smell like fish. 701 01:01:06,992 --> 01:01:09,017 We'll get used to her vertical smile. 702 01:01:09,117 --> 01:01:11,433 - It's called the oedipus complex. - ...With vinegar. 703 01:01:11,533 --> 01:01:14,450 If she said yes, I wouldn't say no. 704 01:01:15,950 --> 01:01:17,294 What about me? 705 01:01:28,783 --> 01:01:30,463 Did you sleep well? 706 01:01:44,117 --> 01:01:45,392 Are they infected? 707 01:01:45,492 --> 01:01:46,492 No. 708 01:01:54,908 --> 01:01:58,325 I have to be at my babysitting job at 7. 709 01:02:00,033 --> 01:02:01,122 All right. 710 01:02:06,825 --> 01:02:09,742 - Is she giving you a ride? - Yes. 711 01:02:29,408 --> 01:02:31,088 Oh, there you are. 712 01:02:40,117 --> 01:02:42,308 Have you always wanted to be an instructor? 713 01:02:42,408 --> 01:02:43,408 No. 714 01:02:43,575 --> 01:02:47,808 I had a grudge against humans. I preferred animals. 715 01:02:47,908 --> 01:02:50,933 What about you? Do you know what you want to do? 716 01:02:51,033 --> 01:02:54,225 I thought about becoming a vet at one point. 717 01:02:54,325 --> 01:02:58,575 But my mom said you only see sick or dead animals. 718 01:02:58,858 --> 01:03:01,383 Soon, you'll be able to make your own choices. 719 01:03:01,483 --> 01:03:03,700 Childhood isn't a life sentence. 720 01:03:07,033 --> 01:03:09,267 Do you know the legend of the two wolves? 721 01:03:09,367 --> 01:03:10,600 There's the black wolf, 722 01:03:10,700 --> 01:03:14,225 manipulative, hot-tempered, threatening, who rules through fear, who kills. 723 01:03:14,325 --> 01:03:17,100 And there is the white wolf, welcoming, joyful, 724 01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:19,683 peaceful, who helps and supports others. 725 01:03:19,783 --> 01:03:23,725 Every man has these two wolves that are constantly fighting each other. 726 01:03:23,825 --> 01:03:27,350 In one version of the legend, the one you feed wins. 727 01:03:27,450 --> 01:03:30,117 But I prefer a more complex one. 728 01:03:31,450 --> 01:03:37,700 She says that if you feed only one, the other will fight even harder to survive. 729 01:03:38,950 --> 01:03:40,867 But if you feed both, 730 01:03:41,533 --> 01:03:44,142 you will find balance within yourself. 731 01:03:44,242 --> 01:03:46,825 Our two wolves need each other. 732 01:03:49,950 --> 01:03:54,017 The black wolf isn't all flaws. He can be brave, 733 01:03:54,117 --> 01:03:57,200 which the white wolf sometimes lacks. 734 01:03:59,450 --> 01:04:00,890 Are you coming? 735 01:04:03,950 --> 01:04:04,950 Come on. 736 01:04:16,367 --> 01:04:17,573 There we go. 737 01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:01,533 We're, we're in the finals 738 01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:27,783 Wouldn't you like to be my dad? 739 01:05:30,783 --> 01:05:34,118 I'm your instructor. That's not bad, is it? 740 01:05:35,742 --> 01:05:39,183 I'm not sure I'd make a good dad. You should ask Maëlle. 741 01:05:39,283 --> 01:05:43,200 In my opinion, sometimes she'd like to switch. 742 01:06:03,658 --> 01:06:05,117 Go, Les Bleus. 743 01:07:29,158 --> 01:07:32,575 These humans are a bit off, aren't they? 744 01:07:35,908 --> 01:07:37,867 We are the champions 745 01:07:46,408 --> 01:07:48,158 Come with us! 746 01:08:06,867 --> 01:08:10,492 One, two, and three-zero 747 01:08:28,700 --> 01:08:30,236 Good night, dad. 748 01:09:02,992 --> 01:09:04,140 Good night. 749 01:09:35,408 --> 01:09:36,408 Here. 750 01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:40,450 I recorded a track for you. 751 01:09:42,492 --> 01:09:43,640 A rap song. 752 01:09:55,700 --> 01:09:58,283 Well, good night. 753 01:10:23,325 --> 01:10:25,492 Damn it! I gained a pound. 754 01:10:26,450 --> 01:10:29,367 It's the cream you put in the food. 755 01:10:29,992 --> 01:10:32,475 If you teach him to drive the way you tie his shoelaces, 756 01:10:32,575 --> 01:10:35,017 he'll get his license when he's 40. 757 01:10:35,117 --> 01:10:37,767 I should have left him with the housekeeper. 758 01:10:37,867 --> 01:10:38,867 Damn it! 759 01:10:57,158 --> 01:10:58,991 Give way to the right. 760 01:11:01,575 --> 01:11:03,325 Nothing on the right. 761 01:11:05,700 --> 01:11:07,236 The other right? 762 01:11:07,867 --> 01:11:08,867 Yes. 763 01:11:17,867 --> 01:11:20,033 That's right, yeah. 764 01:11:21,867 --> 01:11:23,908 The other right. 765 01:11:42,867 --> 01:11:43,867 Hello. 766 01:11:44,617 --> 01:11:45,617 Hello. 767 01:11:51,908 --> 01:11:52,908 Dow! 768 01:11:59,992 --> 01:12:01,198 Here you go. 769 01:12:16,325 --> 01:12:17,355 Philippe. 770 01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:20,200 Goodbye. 771 01:12:47,533 --> 01:12:51,033 She wants to be mounted by an Alpha male. 772 01:12:59,742 --> 01:13:01,909 Have you been to war, sir? 773 01:13:02,700 --> 01:13:04,867 Si vis pacem, para bellum. 774 01:13:05,075 --> 01:13:07,517 He who wants peace prepares for war and wages it. 775 01:13:07,617 --> 01:13:10,475 - Have you killed people? - Of course. I've always wanted 776 01:13:10,575 --> 01:13:12,742 to hear bullets whistling. 777 01:13:13,242 --> 01:13:14,242 Ok. 778 01:13:14,575 --> 01:13:16,517 Everyone let go of their reins 779 01:13:16,617 --> 01:13:17,925 and take off your stirrups. 780 01:13:18,025 --> 01:13:19,903 I'm going to tell you a story. 781 01:13:21,492 --> 01:13:24,242 - Quietly, that's it. - One day, 782 01:13:24,408 --> 01:13:27,867 I saw a gazelle on the top of a Ridge. 783 01:13:28,575 --> 01:13:33,242 Without turning off my Jeep's engine, I stand up and... 784 01:13:33,742 --> 01:13:34,867 I shoot. 785 01:13:35,367 --> 01:13:38,517 At 150 meters, the gazelle is still looking at me. 786 01:13:38,617 --> 01:13:41,475 I ask the driver to turn off the engine. 787 01:13:41,575 --> 01:13:42,919 I shoot again. 788 01:13:43,992 --> 01:13:47,517 - All right, let's start the warm-up. - The gazelle is watching me. 789 01:13:47,617 --> 01:13:50,267 I get out, lean on the hood, and shoot... 790 01:13:50,367 --> 01:13:52,047 You can talk later. 791 01:13:53,033 --> 01:13:54,892 The gazelle keeps going. 792 01:13:54,972 --> 01:13:55,912 I lie down, 793 01:13:55,992 --> 01:13:57,617 I shoot again. 794 01:13:58,617 --> 01:14:00,225 The gazelle is still looking at me. 795 01:14:00,325 --> 01:14:04,725 I fire three more rounds. And then, finally, the gazelle disappears. 796 01:14:04,825 --> 01:14:07,725 - Calmly. - When we went to check, we saw 797 01:14:07,825 --> 01:14:10,100 that there were two dead gazelles. 798 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:13,350 One with seven bullet holes, and the other, just one. 799 01:14:13,450 --> 01:14:14,867 Please. 800 01:14:16,658 --> 01:14:17,658 There. 801 01:14:28,950 --> 01:14:29,950 Sir, 802 01:14:30,492 --> 01:14:34,183 we're taking it slowly. His muscles are cold. 803 01:14:34,283 --> 01:14:35,850 Keep a light hand. 804 01:14:35,950 --> 01:14:37,039 Excuse me? 805 01:14:40,908 --> 01:14:44,118 I'm not going to let a p4 push me around. 806 01:14:46,408 --> 01:14:49,908 That horse is fit for the slaughterhouse. 807 01:14:52,283 --> 01:14:54,808 I don't see what you're teaching with horses like these. 808 01:14:54,908 --> 01:14:59,075 Everything you seem to be unaware of, apparently. 809 01:15:02,492 --> 01:15:03,658 P4... 810 01:15:07,992 --> 01:15:10,075 Stay focused, please. 811 01:15:33,533 --> 01:15:35,950 I'll wait for you in the car. 812 01:16:09,783 --> 01:16:12,450 You've been here for 20 minutes. 813 01:16:14,867 --> 01:16:18,600 Mom says you're wasting water when people in Africa don't have enough. 814 01:16:18,700 --> 01:16:19,965 I don't care. 815 01:16:22,617 --> 01:16:25,850 I won't have any hot water left for my shower. 816 01:16:25,950 --> 01:16:27,630 It's already cold. 817 01:16:40,783 --> 01:16:42,017 What are they doing? 818 01:16:42,117 --> 01:16:46,950 They're watching a movie dubbed into French. It's boring. 819 01:16:53,450 --> 01:16:55,617 Did you listen to my tape? 820 01:16:56,408 --> 01:16:57,408 No. 821 01:17:16,242 --> 01:17:20,368 You know, my biggest fantasy is to make you come. 822 01:17:20,575 --> 01:17:21,840 And mom, too. 823 01:17:23,700 --> 01:17:27,517 Do you think I should talk to my therapist about this? 824 01:17:27,617 --> 01:17:32,700 Risk move 3: Enter enemy territory. Try to stay put or flee. 825 01:17:32,867 --> 01:17:34,658 Risk roll 4: Kill. 826 01:17:34,825 --> 01:17:38,725 Risk move 3: Fight, invade, penetrate enemy territory. 827 01:17:38,825 --> 01:17:40,867 Risk roll 3: Invade. 828 01:17:41,242 --> 01:17:42,558 Risk roll 4: Kill. 829 01:17:42,658 --> 01:17:46,225 Risk move 3: Fight, penetrate enemy territory. 830 01:17:46,325 --> 01:17:48,992 Risk roll 4: Kill. 831 01:17:49,158 --> 01:17:51,892 Risk roll 3: Enter enemy territory. 832 01:17:51,992 --> 01:17:54,642 Risk roll 3: Penetrate enemy territory. 833 01:17:54,742 --> 01:17:56,892 I was like a soldier in his trench. 834 01:17:56,992 --> 01:18:00,183 When he can no longer bear to wait for danger, 835 01:18:00,283 --> 01:18:03,450 he goes out, runs, and goes to get it. 836 01:18:05,658 --> 01:18:07,908 Here, just do what they do. 837 01:18:26,325 --> 01:18:28,975 Risk 3: Entering enemy territory 838 01:18:29,075 --> 01:18:31,350 and attempt to survive there or flee. 839 01:18:31,450 --> 01:18:33,100 Risk roll 4: Kill. 840 01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:36,867 Risk roll 3: Fight, invade enemy territory. 841 01:18:37,033 --> 01:18:41,267 Risk move 3: Invade, penetrate the enemy's territory. 842 01:18:41,367 --> 01:18:42,711 I can't do it. 843 01:18:44,908 --> 01:18:46,540 You're too tight. 844 01:18:49,783 --> 01:18:51,319 Help me, please. 845 01:18:53,700 --> 01:18:56,117 You can't leave me like this. 846 01:19:54,325 --> 01:19:57,892 I'm sure it lasted two and a half minutes. 847 01:19:57,992 --> 01:20:01,409 But my arm feels like it lasted forever. 848 01:20:02,867 --> 01:20:07,600 I thought that if he got what he wanted, we wouldn't talk about it anymore. 849 01:20:07,700 --> 01:20:09,380 But 30 years later, 850 01:20:09,867 --> 01:20:12,117 I'm still talking about it. 851 01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:44,533 Let's go in. 852 01:20:45,325 --> 01:20:46,414 Well then? 853 01:20:47,075 --> 01:20:50,367 Are you sick? What's wrong with you? 854 01:20:50,533 --> 01:20:52,165 My stomach hurts. 855 01:20:52,450 --> 01:20:56,475 - That's it! - You're on your period, you're a woman! 856 01:20:56,575 --> 01:20:58,225 No, I have a stomachache. 857 01:20:58,325 --> 01:21:01,725 - I just want to sleep. - Given your mood, I bet that's it. 858 01:21:01,825 --> 01:21:04,017 I'll go get you some granules. 859 01:21:04,117 --> 01:21:07,700 Cassandra is on her period! She's a woman! 860 01:21:07,908 --> 01:21:09,825 Well done, son. 861 01:21:11,575 --> 01:21:13,767 All those resumes are finally paying off, 862 01:21:13,867 --> 01:21:16,850 - all those cover letters. - It's about time. 863 01:21:16,950 --> 01:21:19,700 A three-star restaurant, no less. 864 01:21:20,033 --> 01:21:22,533 Here's to your apprenticeship! 865 01:21:25,283 --> 01:21:28,700 - Look me in the eye! - That's bad luck. 866 01:21:37,617 --> 01:21:39,297 Bravo, bravo, bravo. 867 01:22:08,075 --> 01:22:09,558 When are you coming home? 868 01:22:09,658 --> 01:22:12,142 Midnight, not before. We'll get your brother settled in, 869 01:22:12,242 --> 01:22:15,183 have dinner at a restaurant, then it'll be time to head home. 870 01:22:15,283 --> 01:22:17,033 Come on, front seat! 871 01:22:17,200 --> 01:22:19,308 You stay home, don't open the door to anyone 872 01:22:19,408 --> 01:22:22,267 and lock yourself in when it gets dark. 873 01:22:22,367 --> 01:22:23,367 Ok. 874 01:22:29,117 --> 01:22:30,117 Bye. 875 01:24:21,867 --> 01:24:25,117 - He was great. - Yeah, he's improved. 876 01:24:28,953 --> 01:24:29,953 Hi. 877 01:24:30,033 --> 01:24:31,283 Hi. 878 01:24:33,117 --> 01:24:34,450 Want to try? 879 01:24:38,450 --> 01:24:41,450 Close your eyes and let yourself go. 880 01:26:11,200 --> 01:26:14,367 Have a drink, it'll make it hurt less. 881 01:26:24,242 --> 01:26:25,922 There you go, ma'am. 882 01:26:28,117 --> 01:26:29,642 I think I'm drunk. 883 01:26:29,742 --> 01:26:31,992 I don't think so, I'm sure. 884 01:26:40,492 --> 01:26:43,825 Cassandra, did you take your mom's car? 885 01:26:45,033 --> 01:26:48,533 Your dad's coming. I think he'll love it. 886 01:26:50,658 --> 01:26:52,338 Can you take it off? 887 01:26:52,617 --> 01:26:54,033 No, I can't. 888 01:26:57,117 --> 01:27:00,950 You need to drink coffee and eat to sober up. 889 01:27:27,325 --> 01:27:29,005 Am I bothering you? 890 01:27:35,033 --> 01:27:36,783 You don't respect me. 891 01:27:38,825 --> 01:27:41,075 You don't respect anything! 892 01:27:44,700 --> 01:27:46,242 Get your things. 893 01:27:46,408 --> 01:27:49,825 You can say goodbye to your new friends. 894 01:27:50,117 --> 01:27:54,743 I'll have you charged with pedophilia. It won't be long now. 895 01:27:56,492 --> 01:27:58,117 - Come on. - Dad. 896 01:28:06,617 --> 01:28:08,297 Something happened. 897 01:28:11,700 --> 01:28:13,044 With Philippe. 898 01:28:17,033 --> 01:28:18,377 He touched me. 899 01:28:23,992 --> 01:28:24,992 And... 900 01:28:26,533 --> 01:28:28,616 He asked me to touch him. 901 01:28:36,408 --> 01:28:38,158 It's not their fault. 902 01:28:58,283 --> 01:28:59,325 My keys. 903 01:29:44,200 --> 01:29:47,783 It happened all the time in ancient Egypt. 904 01:29:49,408 --> 01:29:52,100 And it still happens in every family. 905 01:29:52,200 --> 01:29:53,832 Here's the proof. 906 01:29:57,367 --> 01:29:59,075 It's no big deal. 907 01:30:03,617 --> 01:30:07,783 I've seen pedophilia, sadism, homosexuality, 908 01:30:08,367 --> 01:30:11,950 at a junior seminary. I was ten years old. 909 01:30:16,033 --> 01:30:19,017 A friend of mine had a sadistic priest as his spiritual father. 910 01:30:19,117 --> 01:30:22,950 He didn't want to switch. That clearly proves 911 01:30:23,283 --> 01:30:25,283 that he enjoyed it, too. 912 01:30:30,492 --> 01:30:35,409 From the age of 7, a person is responsible for themselves. 913 01:30:36,242 --> 01:30:41,242 If you didn't defend yourself, it's because you enjoyed it. 914 01:32:01,242 --> 01:32:02,874 What did you say? 915 01:32:03,950 --> 01:32:07,017 You've always been jealous. You've always wanted to hurt him. 916 01:32:07,117 --> 01:32:10,600 If it happened, you caused it. You're much stronger than he is. 917 01:32:10,700 --> 01:32:12,350 You can't deny it. 918 01:32:12,450 --> 01:32:14,100 You're much smarter than he is. 919 01:32:14,200 --> 01:32:16,975 You recorded the truth right there. 920 01:32:17,075 --> 01:32:19,808 You took the bet, you put this tape in. 921 01:32:19,908 --> 01:32:21,183 I'm going to make copies 922 01:32:21,283 --> 01:32:22,392 to have proof. 923 01:32:22,492 --> 01:32:24,433 Nobody goes to jail over a little "touchy-touchy." 924 01:32:24,533 --> 01:32:25,725 I won't hand her over! 925 01:32:25,825 --> 01:32:28,142 I'm going to save my daughter! 926 01:32:28,242 --> 01:32:31,392 It's normal for siblings to explore each other. 927 01:32:31,492 --> 01:32:32,492 But... 928 01:32:41,867 --> 01:32:45,367 We used to wash ourselves in the kitchen! 929 01:32:46,283 --> 01:32:49,100 When I started getting body hair, my mom yelled at my brothers. 930 01:32:49,200 --> 01:32:50,558 "Get out of here!" 931 01:32:50,658 --> 01:32:53,053 She told me, "you have hair on your private parts, 932 01:32:53,153 --> 01:32:54,933 that's normal, you're growing up", 933 01:32:55,033 --> 01:32:57,642 from now on, you'll wash yourself!” 934 01:32:57,742 --> 01:33:01,825 The way she did it really traumatized me. 935 01:33:02,200 --> 01:33:04,827 My little brother François, he used to stick his fingers in there. 936 01:33:04,907 --> 01:33:05,870 Well, yeah! 937 01:33:05,950 --> 01:33:07,308 One finger, two, three, 938 01:33:07,408 --> 01:33:12,017 it hurts, but it's okay, here you go, doctor, thank you, goodbye. 939 01:33:12,117 --> 01:33:16,075 You played "touch the pee," that's all! 940 01:33:16,700 --> 01:33:20,617 It's none of our business, it's your business. 941 01:33:21,075 --> 01:33:23,033 I really was raped. 942 01:33:23,825 --> 01:33:26,100 Well, I didn't make a big deal out of it. 943 01:33:26,200 --> 01:33:27,442 Do you feel dirty? 944 01:33:27,542 --> 01:33:29,683 Well, you go wash up, and move on! 945 01:33:29,783 --> 01:33:30,931 Oh, really? 946 01:33:31,658 --> 01:33:35,075 Were you raped? That's news to me. When? 947 01:33:43,575 --> 01:33:46,475 Before I met you, when I was 23, at work. 948 01:33:46,575 --> 01:33:50,993 It wasn't really rape, or you would have told me about it. 949 01:33:52,825 --> 01:33:55,825 My mother passed on a quality to me. 950 01:33:56,200 --> 01:33:57,880 She was dignified. 951 01:33:58,667 --> 01:34:02,475 We make do with what we have, we hide our troubles. 952 01:34:02,575 --> 01:34:04,575 And we don't go begging. 953 01:34:05,283 --> 01:34:08,367 I wish for one thing for you. 954 01:34:08,533 --> 01:34:11,100 That you focus on your studies. 955 01:34:11,200 --> 01:34:15,308 So you'll never owe anyone anything and can earn your own money! 956 01:34:15,388 --> 01:34:16,370 I'm tired. 957 01:34:16,450 --> 01:34:18,130 You're going to bed. 958 01:34:22,242 --> 01:34:23,242 Come on. 959 01:34:24,367 --> 01:34:25,807 To bed, I said. 960 01:36:22,083 --> 01:36:23,419 Come on, get on. 961 01:36:25,233 --> 01:36:27,800 Where do you want to go? I'll take you wherever you want. 962 01:36:27,900 --> 01:36:29,480 It's up to you, ok? 963 01:36:29,625 --> 01:36:32,142 When people are nice to me, it makes me want to cry. 964 01:36:32,242 --> 01:36:33,682 Well, go ahead. 965 01:36:34,742 --> 01:36:35,742 Cry. 966 01:36:42,200 --> 01:36:43,267 You know what? 967 01:36:43,367 --> 01:36:47,367 You can spit on me, blow your nose on my shirt.